I can tell you, with 100% certainty, it’s much more stressful for the parent than the photographer when it comes to photographing their children. Every parent wants the perfect portrait showing their well-behaved, perfect children. I can also tell you with 100% certainty that all children at some point in the shoot will not cooperate, be it in the beginning, half way through and sometimes not at all. And you know what? That’s absolutely fine with me. In fact, that’s when I love to photograph them the most. I assure the parents that I will get that perfect shot and I do because I let the kids just be themselves. Otherwise, how would I have gotten that great shot of the feuding sisters above? And honestly, I always end up liking those shots better!
A child can only be ‘perfect’ for so long before cutting loose. Sometimes I’ll even have them act silly first before trying to get them to sit still for the camera. That’s what I did with these boys. I let them be silly for 3 or 4 shots if they agreed to then sit still for me. They agreed and I got these 2 great shots. What’s not to love about that?!
Today I savor imperfections. Tracey wants to know and so do I: What are you savoring today?
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November 23, 2009 at 9:45 pm |
I wish I could write like you I’d just love to do this!
November 23, 2009 at 10:07 pm |
so true chris, so true! i was just thinking of a post like this for SS…i like the in-between moments from sessions too. sweet shots.
November 24, 2009 at 8:27 am |
the “fueding” shot is too cute!!! I love it!! the make up shot is one any parent would love!! Nice work Chris!!
November 25, 2009 at 1:00 am |
I am savoring a distant, yet dear, friend I’ve yet to meet face to face. Your words, your heart mean much to me. Hope all is well with you and your beautiful family.
November 25, 2009 at 6:03 pm |
I couldn’t agree more. When I see families out at the apple orchard or photo-op type places, I always offer to take their group photo and always make a point to snap a few before or after the “pose” to capture the family personality that I see an outsider.